GabiFresh teams with Swimsuitsforall again

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GabiFresh has gotten together with swimsuitsforall again and I'm liking what I see.  This is Gabi's second time collaborating with this plus friendly swimsuit company.  Gabi first line sold out quickly and ushered in the era of the Fatkini.  


This years she brings us a neon colored Save By The Bell inspired longline bra and cutout bottom 2 piece set called Nala as part of the swimsuitsforall Swim Sexy collection.  The midkini comes with removeable strips and underwire for support.  It'll be available for pre-order today at www.swimsuitsforall.com 


It'll comes in size 8 though 24 and will ship in 2 weeks!  What I like must about this item is that you're allowed to select the top and bottom in two different sizes under one item code.  This cutie is available for the pocket friendly price of $58.50 

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My conversation with Joan Rivers

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Fat shaming hits the popular Girls star, Lena Dunham.  While appearing on Howard Stern's Sirius XM radio show  Fashion Police host Joan Rivers made comments about the Girls star weight and adding the she was promoting obesity.   

Howard Stern : "Well, I think the thing we love about her is that she doesn't give a s**t ... She did a whole [Girls] episode in a bikini. It was the funniest f**king thing I ever saw."
Joan followed up by saying  this about Lena " You're  sending a message out to people saying, 'It's OK! Stay fat! Get diabetes. Everybody die. Lose your fingers.' 



I disagree with Ms. Rivers comments.  One I don't  think Lena is obese and two I believe she's promoting love for ones body no matter the size.  Joan comments however did make me stop and think about myself.  Do I promote obesity?

I tell women and girls all  the time it's okay to love yourself.  Be happy with you.  I say to people you can be beautiful at any size.  Am I secretly telling girls it's okay to have that extra piece of cake.  Am I subliminally telling women skip the gym as long as you dress nice.



So I called my good friend in my head Joan (Rivers) so we could chat and clear the air.  

I said "Joan girlfriend, you're dead ass wrong for what you said about Lena.  There isn't anything wrong with her size.   And you know damn well she isn't promoting obesity.  She is happy with the size she is.  Not every starlet in Hollywood is going to be a size zero."  Then Joan replies " How can she wear dresses above the knee?" I'm in shock.  "Now Joan what do you mean?  She is not a nun.  She's a young  lady.  She lives in L.A.  of course she's going to have on short skirts and dresses.  Quit being an old fool."  I then added "Joan I think you're promoting eating disorders and self hatred.  Not everyone is going to be a size 6.  Not everyone's body is designed that way." I then told my good friend in my head " I'm fully aware that being overweight can cause a greater risk for health issues.  However, a persons self esteem is closely tied  to how they treat themselves.  Joan you know I was in a relationship were the person wanted a skinny version of me.  I worked hard to give them that but I couldn't achieve a mainstream size."  This caused major issue in our relationship.   I had to step back and say to myself. " I'm a wonderful person.  I'm beautiful.  I'm never going to have the Beyonce body however there is nothing wrong with the skin I'm in."  Since ending that relationship I've added the weight that I lost back however I feel better about myself.  I regularly go to the doctor for routine check up and my health is just fine.  I'm not at risk for any adverse health conditions. I know that I do need to lose some weight because I'm not as fit as I could be.  And honestly it would be simply for more clothing options. 


 
Joan Rivers is in the business of making jokes and at many times other peoples expense.  I get it.  However there are many young people at don't.  I know this is not the last time we'll be having this conversation.  So I'll say this again at any size LOVE YOU!  If you're not happy with the person in the mirror then you need to make the changes for you and no one else.   

I really didn't chat with Joan Rivers but it would have been nice to! 

                         

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Have you've paid less lately?

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Have you checked out Payless Shoe Source lately?  They currently have a great clearance sale where I scored these cuties for $14 in addition to a 30% off other select items.
I also grabbed these black ones. 


And lastly I got these super comfortable patten leather tan pair (no pictured) at $19.99 after getting 30% off.  

As a plus size woman some heels don't feel to supportive.  The Payless brand did.  I'm happy I stopped by.  I got 3 pair of heels for $50.  Can you say winning?! 

Hope this helps if you're looking for comfortable pocket friendly heels.  Happy shopping! 


 



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Blogher '14

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I'm pleased to announce that The Fat Girl of Fashion blog will be represented at this years BlogHer conference.  Look out for more information leading up to the conference! 

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Dressing Room Confessions

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I'm glad you all really like Dressing Room Confessions.  I've decided to post future Dressing Room Confessions on the blog.  The response has been so great I'm currently taking appointments for guest on this series.  For those of you that are new to The Fat Girl of Fashion blog,  Dressing room confession is where I show other women that what their going though in the dressing room is happening daily to other women.  I offer tips to make the experience better.  DRCs is to show that we have to go though a feel bad choices before we say yes to that perfect dress or outfit. 


I did a blog post about Radiant Orchid, Pantone's Color of the Year for 2014 and since then I've been trying to capture this lovely color for myself.  The dress to the left was a fail from the first DRC series in which I said " It's best to try on clothes before you've eaten so you don't feel bloated."  I've finally been able to find this lovey color in dress form.  With this happy ending I suggest not waiting to the last second to get a dress/outfit for a big event.  It can be real upsetting when you have a look in your head of how you want to appear on that special day and not having enough time to achieve it.  Starting early gives more options.  


This is the same dress in three different sizes.  The bottom half was a good fit in all the sizes.  The issue was the top half.  It was TIGHT.  It's funny when I went out into the store to grab a larger size another woman was chatting with her friend and she was saying the same thing I knew but wouldn't admit.  It's not me it's the dress.  With that I'm saying recognize when a cut is just not for you.  I know I'm a plus woman and everything not going to fit but it's not always my body that's the issue.  Some clothes are just not cut properly.  


When recognizing cuts in clothes look at colors also.  Take the pictures above the the darker shorts on the left make me look smaller than the same shorts in the lighter shade.  Depending on where you carry your weight shading or color can make or break a look.  Shading or color can also enhance  a look.  Best you use color highlighting on your best assets.  


Thank you Forever 21 staff of Fox Valley Aurora store for helping with this Dress Room Confessions.  For the next DRC you're welcome to join me.  I do them on Saturday or Sunday.  I'm open to any retail store or thrift store.  I've been asked to expand DRC to it'll include shoes, make up and hair.  The particpants must be willing to have themself photographed and or video taped without editing.  Email me at the fatgirloffashion@gmail.com if you're interested & in the Chicagoland area.  



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ASOS Curves "Options for the + woman"

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ASOS is the UK's largest independent online fashion and beauty retailer and offers over 60,000 branded and own label products across womenswear and menswear. Dresses, jeans, T-shirts, shirts, shoes, jewelry, lingerie and beauty – they've got the lot. 

Today I'm focused on ASOS's Curves section.    The Curves section caters to the plus size woman.  ASOS Curve by ASOS is a great affordable option for plus size women.  Plus size women can check out ASOS Curve, New Look Inspire and Little Mistress Curvy for your seasonal update. Lock down those killer curves in skinny jeans and cinching Belts or step up those silhouettes in cute skater dresses, jumpsuits and printed camis in sizes (UK) 18 to 28 *please see sizing chart for US sizing*.


ASOS Curve offers varies styles.  Which is great for women who are trying to build their wardrobe or unsure about the look they want to go with.  


It's great to have options when looking outfits for work or play.  Above are some top & tank that shows the range of choices.  


The pants, leggings, shorts, overall sections are amazing.  There are so many amazing items to choose from.  Truelly something for everyone! 



With Summer coming up we can't bypass swimwear.  They give one piece or two piece pick from.  Above are just a few I found. 

I made a point to only show photos on items at the largest size offered per the request of a follower looking rebuild their wardrobe.  Below I've include a discount code to be used by everyone.  ASOS offers free shipping to & return shipping with no minimum purchase required.  I encourge you to order two sizes if your questioning a fit.  


I hope this helps.  Happy shopping.  

Scribe and feel free to email me at thefatgirloffashion@gmail.com if you're looking for help or want me to review an item.  Support the cause at www.gofundme.com/thefatgirloffashion 










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